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187: What to Do When You Don't Feel Motivated (Real Talk for Entrepreneurs)

Cindy Gordon Season 3 Episode 187

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What to Do When You Don't Feel Motivated (Real Talk for Entrepreneurs)

Feeling unmotivated and don't know how to get moving again? In this episode of Thrive in Five, business coach Cindy Gordon shares the real talk about lack of motivation and three practical strategies to get back on track without forcing yourself.

In this episode, you'll discover:

  • Why having no motivation doesn't mean you're lazy or broken
  • The "ridiculously small" approach that creates momentum when you don't want to do anything
  • How to reframe your relationship with motivation for long-term success
  • What to do when you're feeling unmotivated at work or in your business
  • Why honoring your energy patterns leads to more sustainable productivity

Perfect for: Unmotivated entrepreneurs, overwhelmed business owners, and anyone who's ever wondered "how do I get my motivation back?"

Episode Highlights: "Lack of motivation is often your body's way of saying 'I need something different right now.'"

"Motivation is actually a feeling that comes and goes, just like happiness or excitement. Instead of waiting to feel motivated, focus on your commitment to your goals."

Stop waiting to feel motivated and start building trust with yourself. This episode will help you move forward even when you don't feel like it.

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It's Monday morning and you're staring at your to-do list, feeling like doing absolutely nothing. Zero motivation, zero energy. Zero. Desire to tackle anything on your plate. You know what you need to do, but you just don't feel like doing it. What if I told you that this feeling is completely normal and there are three simple strategies to get you moving again without forcing yourself into productivity. In this episode of Thrive In Five, I'll share exactly what to do when you don't feel motivated. This is real talk for when you are totally unmotivated, Welcome back to Thrive in Five, where I give you a quick burst of motivation and productivity in five minutes or less. I'm Cindy, your host, a self-made entrepreneur, busy mom, and a business coach. I've built and sold several digital businesses ranging from five to six figure successes. So when it comes to managing time and priorities in both life and work, I get it. I've been there and I am here to help you thrive. let's be honest about what's really happening here. Maybe you've been pushing too hard for weeks and suddenly hit a wall. Maybe you're overwhelmed by everything on your plate and you don't know where to start. Or maybe you're just having one of those days where even simple tasks feel impossible. And you're wondering if something's wrong with you. The truth is feeling unmotivated isn't a character flaw, and it's definitely not laziness. When you have no motivation to do anything, your brain is actually trying to protect you. You might be experiencing decision fatigue, emotional overwhelm, or your nervous system might be asking for a reset. The key is understanding that the lack of motivation is often your body's way of saying, I am needing something different right now. As a self-made entrepreneur who's built and sold several digital businesses, I have had my fair share of motivation meltdowns. I've learned that sustainable success isn't always feeling motivated. It's about knowing how to work with your natural energy patterns instead of against them. So when it comes to managing the ups and downs of entrepreneurial life. I get it. I've been there. So here's how to get motivated when you just don't feel like it. And none of those strategies involve forcing yourself or just pushing through. First off, honor the pause. Instead of fighting the lack of motivation, ask yourself, what do I actually need right now? Am I tired, overwhelmed, burnt out? Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is take a 20 minute walk, have a healthy snack. Or simply acknowledge that you're human and not a productivity machine. This isn't about being lazy. It's about being strategic with your energy when you honor what your body and mind are telling you, you often find that motivation returns naturally. Next, start ridiculously small. When you are feeling unmotivated, your brain sees everything as overwhelming. So instead of trying to tackle a big project. Choose the smallest possible version of progress. Maybe it's opening the document, maybe it's writing one sentence. Maybe it's organizing just your desk instead of your entire office. The goal isn't to complete everything, it's to create momentum. Once you start moving, even in the teeny tiny ways, motivation often follows action rather than the other way around. Finally, I want you to reframe your relationship with motivation. Here's where most people get it wrong. They think that motivation has to come first, but motivation is actually a feeling that comes and goes. Just like happiness or excitement., Instead of waiting to feel motivated, focus on your commitment to your goals and identify as someone who follows through. Ask yourself, what would a successful entrepreneur do in this moment? And then. Do the thing, regardless of how you feel, this isn't about grinding or hustling. This is about building trust with yourself. The magic happens when you stop. Making motivation means something about your worth or your future success. Sometimes you'll feel motivated and sometimes you won't. Both are completely normal parts of being human. I use these strategies constantly in my own personal life and I teach them to some of my clients. One, overwhelmed entrepreneur told me that she stopped the cycle of guilt and shame around her daily motivation dips by implementing the ridiculously small approach instead of beating herself up for not feeling like working, she committed to just opening her laptop nine times outta 10. That small, tiny action actually led to productive work. Another business owner realized that her lack of motivation was actually a daily signal that she needed better boundaries. She was saying yes to way too much in her life, and her energy was being completely depleted. This reframe around motivation versus commitment is actually one of the core mindset shifts that I teach in My Overwhelmed Cure program because it's so foundational to sustainable success. If you want to try this today, here is your challenge. The next time you feel unmotivated, don't fight it. Instead, ask yourself, what do I need? Choose one small action and take that step regardless of how you feel. And remember, you don't need motivation to move forward. You just need a commitment to your future self. You don't need to feel motivated every single day to build a successful business and life. You just need to understand that motivation comes and it goes, but your commitment for showing up to yourself can be constant. Some days you'll feel like conquering the world, and other days you'll feel like hiding under the covers. Both are part of the human experience and both are okay. You've got this. Thanks for tuning into the Thrive in Five podcast. If you found value in today's episode, I'd love for you to leave a review. It helps more listeners discover the show and don't forget to subscribe so you never miss a dose of productivity, motivation, and success tips. And hey, share this episode with a friend that could use a little extra inspiration. Until next time, keep thriving. And remember, you've got this.